Relationship Consulting
Relationship Counselling assists couples to focus on meaning, connection, and long-term goals. Improve your existing relationship, discover and overcome issues and obstacles around functional needs, such as parenting, domestic responsibilities and finances.
We assist you to become aware of the connection between your attitudes (beliefs, interpretations, etc), choices and consequences, as well as support you to make your own judgments and decisions about your vision, purpose, requirements, needs, and goals.
We have been seeing people from many religious, ethnic, cultural and racial backgrounds. We have also been assisting people who come from cultures or societies where arranged marriages are common. Lifestyles and marital relationships that were accepted overseas are frequently unsuccessful here in New Zealand and therefore, a great many arranged marriages break up. Religious and cultural issues play a significant role in these cases.
Many couples get so busy with everyday life, the demands of kids, work, house, that they have lost touch with themselves, each other and the relationship. This often happens without anyone realising it and leads simply to one day discovering a lack of connection with your partner, and often a notion that the relationship 'is over' takes shape. Most couples feel like this at some point and you are certainly not alone. There are skills to learn, strategies to apply and plans to make.
When to seek a Relationship Therapist?
You are having difficulties with your partner and want to address emotional and compatibility issues.
You are considering a divorce. Your relationship being threatened by an affair.
Unhappiness within your relationship. Sparkle lost.
Not connecting with your partner because of the pressure of a busy life and schedule.
You are separated and want to work on dealing with each other effectively regarding the children and other issues.
You are experiencing issues in your arranged marriage. Dealing with cultural differences in your marriage and/or coping with society pressure/expectations to your marriage.
We assist you to become aware of the connection between your attitudes (beliefs, interpretations, etc), choices and consequences, as well as support you to make your own judgments and decisions about your vision, purpose, requirements, needs, and goals.
We have been seeing people from many religious, ethnic, cultural and racial backgrounds. We have also been assisting people who come from cultures or societies where arranged marriages are common. Lifestyles and marital relationships that were accepted overseas are frequently unsuccessful here in New Zealand and therefore, a great many arranged marriages break up. Religious and cultural issues play a significant role in these cases.
Many couples get so busy with everyday life, the demands of kids, work, house, that they have lost touch with themselves, each other and the relationship. This often happens without anyone realising it and leads simply to one day discovering a lack of connection with your partner, and often a notion that the relationship 'is over' takes shape. Most couples feel like this at some point and you are certainly not alone. There are skills to learn, strategies to apply and plans to make.
When to seek a Relationship Therapist?
You are having difficulties with your partner and want to address emotional and compatibility issues.
You are considering a divorce. Your relationship being threatened by an affair.
Unhappiness within your relationship. Sparkle lost.
Not connecting with your partner because of the pressure of a busy life and schedule.
You are separated and want to work on dealing with each other effectively regarding the children and other issues.
You are experiencing issues in your arranged marriage. Dealing with cultural differences in your marriage and/or coping with society pressure/expectations to your marriage.